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It has been a rough 90 days for myself and my family. The good news is that we’re all healthy, have all remained happy and have stayed together! The bad news is that we made a decision to sell our home of 11 years!
Ever since we made that decision 90 days ago there have been many challenging twists and turns that needed to be dealt with. They were so challenging that I was on pins and needles most of the time and have experienced a few breakdowns here and there!
Sure… through it all, I have managed to function – continued to attend events, connect with people, encourage my social media friends, empower my clients and still give Garrett and incredible summer experience.
However in the past few days, I decided to take a break and focus on things that mean most to me: MY FAMILY. In my silence, I have received tons of love and support that I felt a sense of responsibility to share what’s going on.
Some of you may wonder, ‘Wow Emma, this is rather personal… are you sure you want to share this with the world?” Well, I thought about it long and hard and I decided to do it because of this:
I believe that “We go through darkness so we can tell our stories and guide others to the light”.
Please don’t feel bad for us. It was a decision we’ve contemplated on for years but have been putting off because we thought for sure that if I work any harder, we just might be able to pull it off… My hope for this post is for you to get inspired and somehow learn from the mistakes we’ve made.
Like many “aggressive” and risk-taking investors, we made decisions that proved great 7 years ago and purchased investment properties not anticipating what was to transpire with our economy. We though for sure we were infallible and NOTHING will happen in the next 20 years!
Boy were we wrong… so with many others…
For the past 2 years I dove in head first learning online marketing, connecting with powerful people, building incredible relationships with them and my favorite part was empowering and helping other entrepreneurs and getting paid for what I love! Needless to say, I neglected paying attention to what’s really going on, hoping and believing that the market will turn around soon!
Sure we were able to generate enough money to meet our enormous financial obligations to the banks and remained in honor for years and years, sacrificing lifestyle but making a choice to invest more in my business education, pushing forward because through it all, I continue to believe and hold on to my dream. A dream that one day, I will have a HUGE business that will enable me us to invest again in what we love… residential real estate, gold and silver.
What we didn’t realize was for 4 or so years, we have “chased” a fantasy. We thought that if we only worked harder and seasoned it with time, we will get caught up. We really believed that the “big money is right around the corner” and it just takes that one big break for us to be able to make our millions and pay of all our financial obligations in lump sum!
In January 2008, we met Dani Johnson for the first time and one principle that we learned from her was to “Prosper Where You’re Planted…”. We so got it at that time. We realized that for us to get “promoted” in the universal sense, we need to be able to progress or succeed with what we have NOW and what we think we’re going to make in the future!
We can’t rely on future earnings, spend it now and expect to generate more…
Please listen to what I am saying here because there is a major lesson here… I am not “preaching” – I just want to drive this important principle as close to home as possible because I this is one of the major lessons we learned in this painful yet rewarding experience!
If you’re an entrepreneur who has mounds and mounds of debt, running around in circles, close to broke but continuing to live an “irresponsible” lifestyle you had prior to becoming broke, spending money you didn’t have with hopes that money is around the corner, I have news for you… YOU WILL STRUGGLE WITH SUCCESS.
It’s the Universal Law of Cause and Effect which says ‘what goes around comes around…” or the Golden Rule “do unto others as you would have others do unto you…” or “what you send out comes back to you tenfold…” I love what Joyce Meyer says all the time:
“YOU CAN’T EXPECT MONEY IF YOU DON’T RESPECT MONEY!”
The Bible says, “To whom much is given, much is expected…” The irony of it all is that in the Parable of the Talents, the one Steward who was able to invest his money wisely was given more and the Steward who chose to be irresponsible, well, instead of being give more, everything he had was taken away from him! How’s that for a lesson?
I guess I am sharing this VERY PERSONAL and painful lesson with you because 2 years ago, I heard the lesson and started doing something about it. However, when things started looking up, I went back to my old ways – to what’s comfortable and somewhat “irresponsible”.
In the process of playing catch up with success and what my mentor Joel Bauer says “living along to get along”, we realized that we were slowly sacrificing something:
QUALITY OF LIFE…
I remember before Gary and I became parents, we would go on 4-5 trips a year as we absolutely love to travel! When Garrett was born, the destinations changed a bit but we still traveled… we went on cruises, resorts and most of the time, they were top notch and on occasion, we even have our very own butler on board!
However, for the past two years, our family travel has been limited to a few trips here and there. Gary’s not able take time off work as much as he used to and my time was spent servicing clients, building my online infrastructure, further my studies via seminars and mentors and invest back into the business and in myself.
In January 2010, when I went to the Internet Marketers Caribbean Cruise I had a ton of fun but there was one thought that stuck in my mind the entire time:
“I wish Gary and Garrett were here…”
It dawned on me that we have not taken any major trips for 3 years! I remembered always imagining that when we have our child/children, we will be traveling extensively, taking them to see museums, dining in the best places and introducing them to various cultures so they will grow up respecting all cultures of the world and loving the history of those cultures.
But instead, due to time and money limitations, we’ve opted for San Diego, Palm Springs, Santa Barbara… Sure they’re not that bad for most people but for us, we knew it was time to:
Buckle down… re-assess… re-group… learn to “prosper where we’re planted” – be able to live within our means. We were ready to no longer be:
HOUSE RICH AND CASH POOR…
Quality of life means so much more to us now that Garrett is 8 years old.
And so, on June 2, 2010, after dodging the decision for 2 years, we have painfully decided to put our home of 11 years in the market… a home we helped design, where we have experienced incredibly beautiful memories – the home that housed our dreams.
Here are some photos our our beloved home… while we’re going to miss it, we know it will house a new family who are yet to create beautiful and memorable dreams for them. I know that the best is yet to come for us!
I have learned a ton of painful lessons and joyful miracles during the past 2 1/2 months from when we made this decision. I plan on sharing them with you, my wonderful friends and readers in my upcoming blog posts with hopes to inspire you and give those of you who are probably on going through the same experience some tools, techniques and resources to help guide you through this painful though “cleansing” process.
I thank all of you who continue to support and cheer me on as I go through this ordeal… Your friendship and love means sooo much to me! I am creating this “series” as this is my way of paying it forward…
Cheering You On To Your Success!
Emma 
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Hey Emma! Thanks for sharing your personal challenges and your victory with us all. It is inspiring and contains a message for everyone.
It’s easy to get caught up in the lure and sound of easy money and it was such a banner time a few years back. You are right – prosper where you are planted and stay within your means. It’s hard but I do follow this principle myself.
Family is the most important and no business can take the place of that! I look forward to more of your story and positive insight!
Love ya!
Jackie Ulmer
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Okay, without going all cliche, this post was the most REAL I have read in some time.
Where do I begin with sharing about how much this resonates with me – not necessarily the selling of the home – but the fact that you are enduring so much CURRENTLY in you life.
The VULNERABILITY that you share is where I BELIEVE the ability to EMPOWER others comes from. Having met you briefly at the “No Excuse Summit” and just following what has been going on in your life really is an INSPIRATION.
Far too often, as people, it is easier to put on the “happy” face than it is to simply show the realities of what is going on in LIFE.
In the book “The Road Less Traveled” – there was a quote that really hit me upside the head – “life is not easy”.
It so OBVIOUS that we tend to think that “we’ll get through this” instead of facing it head on. That’s the great part about our JOURNEY through life!
Here is another saying that you may already be familiar with – it’s found in Acts 17:26(b) – “and HE determined the times set for them and the EXACT places where they should LIVE” (emphasis added).
Thank you for sharing about of the PROCESS of your continued journey through and to SUCCESS.
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Hi Emma,
Your home is beautiful! The most important thing, though, is the memories you created there. I really appreciate this post and your story. I know I’ve run my business and my life the same in the past–thinking the big break was just around the corner.
Even though i was working hard (and it definitely wasn’t fast), it was still a “get rich quick” mentality. In hindsight it’s irresponsible and yes, makes success really hard, if not impossible. I really like that thought: “Prosper where you are.”. I’m definitely doing that now!
I look forward to following your journey and hearing more from you!
Thanks again,
Kari Baxter
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Emma,
Thank you so much for being candid and sharing your story! There are so many others in Orange County like you. I applaud you for focusing on your family, and stepping back to regroup with them. As a Realtor, I’ll remind you ANY house can be made into a home, but its difficult to fix the damage being financially strapped causes to your relationships.
Please keep us posted and I pray you will be blessed on your journey
Emma,
It is almost divine that what I just posted few hours ago about “porcess”, and now I am reading your “process”…
I am encouraged and touched by your post deeply, you and your family surely are in my prayer list. Count me in to cheer you on in this journey, we will overcome!
Blessings,
Kelly
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Hello, Emma:
Sharing a very humbling experience takes a lot of guts…
….that only someone with a very understanding heart can fathom the depths of the meaning of this sharing. Let me then re-assure you that YOU ARE NEVER ALONE….
and the greatest gift that you perpetually own is the LOVE of your own FAMILY….
….the road to your Dreams still awaits for you and YOU alone. May I quote to you a favorite line of mine by an anonymous writer taken from Dr. Stephen Covey’s book Purpose: Focussing on What Matters Most : ” THIS LIFE IS A TEST. It is only a test. If this were an actual Life, you would have been given further instructions and told where to go and what to do. ”
….for nothing in this lifetime is ever gonna last, but the pure love and intentions of the Almighty…so let Thy Will be Done.
….one day you will RISE again and be victorious when you have been purified by your acts of humility…
Still to your continued Success,
Nellie
Emma,
You said everything I could possibly say … “to have more, want less.” You are so blessed with a loving family and friends. To grow, sometimes we have to let go of that which we love, that which gives us solace. You will always have the memories and photos of your home. Who knows what home or adventure is just around the corner? And I have to say this, many, many very creative, hard-working, loving, good people have yet or may never live in a home as you have. I know you know you have been so Blessed to live here. But the stress of keeping it, of being away from those you truly love and are truly your home — your family — will change as you let go. As painful as it is. Cry over what is, what was, what we want. Acknowledge the depth of your feelings. Then … Let go …. let G-d.
Peace be with you and Shalom,
Jenny Lens
My Dearest Emma,
Your story fills my heart with gratitude that I am able to have you as my friend. You are a beacon of light for so many. Imagine how many other hearts you will reach with your words of struggle, hope, dreams, and faith. You are in my daily prayers and I ask God to keep you and your wonderful family safe, healthy and happy. God bless you for all you do for others. You have truly been blessed.
Sending much love,
Alicia
Emma:
By reading your blogs, attending the same seminars, and having you stay in my house during the No Excuses summit that you have the heart of a Lion and your family will be better from these changes.
Sharing these times of financial difficulties must be painful and I assure you many will read your blog, relate to your circumstances and learn from you.
Thank you for sharing
Sandee
Dearest Emma,
You have always been brave, smart and extraordinary. Take care of yourself and your family and I do beleive that- You will be just fine. So have faith and take the right decisions now- It’s never ever too late. In India they say- ‘whenever you wake up- there’s a new morning(new life, new light ) to greet you’
Lots of Love and Hugs,
Juhi
Emma,
You are an incredible lady! You have touched my soul in so many ways. Real character is about what you have shared with us. A reality check for all of us
makes us become better people in the process.
Dr. Wayne Dyer would be honoring you right now with a bright smile! You have been enlightened by your pain and keen insight into your heart.
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your honesty. Now a days…… “real value” is in the truth you live by, rather than thinking about your “appearance” to others Not to many people really walk their talk these days.
and share the way you do. You are a special person!
You will impact many lives in your journey. You are a rare gem and anyone who has the opportunity to be in your life is truly blessed!
Thank you for sharing this personal life experience on your blog and being in my life. It made me feel like I wasn’t alone and there’s Hope is this world when a person finds someone in it like you to work with and be friend too.
God Bless You and Your Family!
Barry Papo
Dear Emma – As we communicated via text… I’m just a short drive away if I can be of assistance in any way! Much love and respect for you and yours
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Thanks for your authenticity. That takes a lot of courage. The majority of people don’t have that trait.
Joey
Speaking the truth in love is a gift. Thanks for sharing that gift.
With respect,
Richard
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Hi Emma,
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I know it has already been said, but it is worth repeating, you are an inspiration! Keep your head held high and know that you are helping all of us by openly evaluating your priorities. Again, thank you for your courage and kindness.
Peace,
Lisa
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Emma you are an amazing woman. To find people, or marketers for that manner, who are transparent and super open is very very rare. I really appreciate you for opening up and sharing with us your life lesson with what you have gone through.
We need more people like you out there in the world who are not afraid to share their life and struggles with the world, while in the pursuit of success and happiness. You are an amazing woman and I know you are well on your way to massive success. I look forward to personally meeting you at the next big event and giving you a SUPER BIG HUG just for being you and sharing you with the world. I hope everyone can learn from your example. An example of being OPEN, HONEST, REAL and TRANSPARENT. You are an example of true leadership.
Your friend,
Hameed Hemmat
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Dear Emma,
Thank you for sharing straight from your heart in a very authentic and genuine way. You will NEVER regret a decision that is focused on family.
I always consider our time here on the planet as precious and short and when we look back at the end of our life will we wish we would have spent more time at “the office” AKA “business” or more time with our family. We know all too well what the answer is. The challenge is making those decisions minute by minute as we necessarily face the financial challenges of making life work. It is what it is.
As I move into my post mid life years I am guided more and more by the axiom “less is more.”
Emma, I recall fondly our meeting there in your living room and the fun time we had with Jerry in the kitchen eating food and preparing for that interview. And then you and Candace sitting over on the steps smiling and giggling during mine and Jerry’s interview. It was very special and memorable and especially after our lunch down at Huntington Beach.
Stay true to your values and the love for your family. I am dealing with similar decisions and appreciate how difficult it is.
As I was just remarking to my husband is that we need to do what is right and responsible not what is convenient or pleasure focused. In the end being true to your values and commitments gives great satisfaction, happiness and peace of mind. The acquisition of “stuff” rings hollow by comparison.
I am just now remembering when my hubby and I were engaged and moving into our wedding plans and future life together. It’s as though it took place yesterday. I told him, “I don’t care how poor we are, I want to raise our family.”
I did stay true to that commitment and had the wonderful joy and privilege of working from home and also homeschooling our boys for twelve years. I have not one regret for that decision. Only that I wish I would have had more time with my youngest son during his junior high and high school years. That is my one regret. I must say I have a very close relationship with him now. We are great friends and I love him deeply.
Reading your post and sharing my thoughts has had a purging effect for me Emma. Thanks for letting me ramble on a bit here. You truly are The Relational Marketer. Tears are flowing. That’s a good thing
Much love, peace and affections.
Yours in Prosperity in Life,
Ann Sieg
Hi Emma,
We don’t have anything like that – beautiful.
But if you get stuck we can do a blow up mattress on the floor.
And since it is New Zealand every day is a holiday
All the best,
Dean.
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Emma:
Thank you for sharing and reminding all of us that the biggest battle is within ourselves. It is a fine line between optimism and realism sometimes. I commend you for being diligent and moving forward with your own integrity and vision. Your faith will reward you for letting nothing get in your way of success and condideration for others. You are reaching people you don’t even know. (I am one of them.) Keep sharing your lessons. I am listening. We are listening.
To your Success,
Bonnie
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Emma,
You are awesome. You are outstanding. I just saw on the Internet how millions are filing bankruptcy, millions are unemployed and millions are have lost their homes. So you are NOT Alone. Your story will give courage and strength to anyone who reads your story, because Many People are going through hard times right now as well as you and your family.
Since you are so truthful and genuine and REAL, you will attract people like that to your organization. Everyone is so sick of the hype that is fed to us about Network Marketing and Internet Marketing.
They can both be EXCELLENT ways to earn money and good money, but people only want to HYPE it, not be Truthful about how much work it all takes to succeed.
You are real and your family is important to you and you will attract like-minded people and bigger success is just around the corner for you and your family.
Thanks for being REAL!
God Bless you and your family!
Better things are on their way.
Sincerely,
Jupiter Jim
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Hello My Dearest Jackie!
How are you? I miss you! THANK YOU for being the first to comment on this blog post… you are so near and dear to me… I value and respect you! I am so glad that this industry has leaders like you who are grounded and know what true success is… “Prosper where you’re planted” is a concept most people either are not familiar with or choose due to circumstances. Thank you for sharing your insight and we will talk soon!!! Love you Jackie! Emma
Hello dearest Eric! You are so wise! Thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment on my blog…Yes, it’s the decision making that’s the most difficult part but if you believe that there is a Master purpose and plan, it’s easier to grab the bull by the horns! I love what you shared in Acts. 17:26 – I sooo needed to hear that! I have read the New Testament a few times but have never seen this verse and here it is exactly when I needed to hear it! Thank you sooo much Eric! I look finding to seeing more of you! Take care… Emma
Hello Kari! Wow, I feel as though I’ve known you forever! THANK YOU for reading and commenting on my blog and my FB wall… I feel sooo loved! I am glad you appreciated this post… yes, “get rich quick” is relative… we all want to succeed NOW. What most people don’t understand is that there is a time for “seasoning”, for strengthening, for being groomed for success… I believe you’re already way ahead of the game because you already understand and are living this principle. I too look forward to getting to know you more! Take care, Kari… see you around! Emma
Jenny dearest Jenny! How are you? Thank you for reading and commenting on my blog! Is that you on your avatar or is it one of your celebrity shots? Yes, “to have more, want less”… When we built our home 12 years ago, we had dreams… we were newly weds and life was much simpler… What’s mind blowing is that as “life happens”, lessons are learned – some painful than others but nevertheless, they happen to teach us major lessons and enable us to dream even bigger dreams! The lesson learned here is one of knowing what’s really important, freeing up oneself from unnecessary burden and remembering not to get caught in the trap of “to have more, want more…” Yes, once the decision was made, a roller coaster of emotions follow but the closer you get to the “closure” the lighter you feel! I appreciate you, Jenny! I trust you’re doing great! Take care… Emma
Alicia my dearest! You make my heart smile! Just seeing your name and picture in my inbox brings my spirit genuine “peace”. I’m the one truly grateful for you! The timing of our meeting couldn’t be more perfect as I know what we’re going through is somewhat parallel. I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate your kind and generous offer to help! I know how busy we are preparing for the launch of our Empowered Business Entrepreneurs LIVE Event and here you are volunteering to help! You’re a rare and true friend and I sooo appreciate you! Much Love back to you! Big Hugs, Emma
Sandee… welcome back from France! I’ve missed you! THANK YOU for such kind words… yes, you are absolutely right… these tough decisions and processes were already happening when I was in your home and No Excuses Summit. I have trained myself to be “in the moment”. I do my best to not worry of the things I have no control of, instead trust in the Master’s Plan… “Heart of a Lion?” Wow! Thanks for such a compliment… coming from someone like you whom I truly admire and respect, this comment means so much to me! Yes, the reason I openly shared this post is precisely to encourage others that they are not alone, there is hope and that it happens to the best of us! Love and Hugs! Emma
Oh Juhi! It’s sooo great to “see” you! How are you and your beautiful family? Yes, we have wonderful memories of our jewelry show here at our home, didn’t we? Are you still marketing your exquisite jewelry? Thank you for believing in me… yes, I know I will be fine… Amen to “whenever you wake up, there is a new morning, new life and new light to greet you! Your comment most definitely brought me a new light
Love and hugs to your family! Nandini must be so grown by now! Take care Juhi! Emma 
Hello Barry! I miss you!!! Welcome back from Denver! Thank you for reading my post and leaving this beautiful comment… you of all people truly know me and the desires of my heart… we’ve been through “thick and thin” together. I am so proud of you and how you’ve evolved. I know you can relate with my transparency because I know how you value truth and honesty and you are a leader who comes from that place of authenticity. Yes, it is my fervent prayer that this post brings people HOPE… that their life doesn’t end when one door closes… in fact, people should rejoice when that happens because it simply means that another one will open for sure and the gifts behind the new door could be even better than the first! I appreciate you soooo much Barry! Big Hugs… Emma
Jerry my FRIEND! How are you? I miss you a ton! THANK YOU for your kind offer to help… slowly but surely, the contents of our home are being packed away! What’s the most freeing part is getting rid of stuff and giving it to those who could use them! Remember when you and I went to Dreams To Reality and we heard Raymond Aaron talk about clutter? Well, now I am really de-cluttering to make room for success to flow! You truly are one of my true, true friends and thank you for always checking in… I will take you up on your offer, perhaps during unpacking! Ha, ha! I can’t wait till the dust settles and we can collaborate again! Big Hugs, Jerry! Emma
Joey, THANK YOU SO MUCH for reading my post and leaving this most genuine comment… Yes, authenticity takes courage… it’s easier to hide behind a mask but you also attract those who do… I believe that the deepest form of encouragement of others is by being true to oneself and being able to share not only one’s triumphs but also challenges… I look forward to knowing you more, Joey… take care… Emma
Hello my dearest Richard! Wow! Thank you for finding the time to stop by, read my post and leave such a profound and powerful comment… “Speaking the truth in love is a gift…” You Sir, know this by heart because you’re one of the few out there who live their lives with such integrity! Honored to know you and I’m still around if you still have a chapter for me in your book
Big Hugs Richard! Emma 
Liiiiissssaaaa! How are you? We haven’t met but I feel as though I already know you! No Ma’m, YOU ARE THE INSPIRATION! I am in awe of your technical know how and how you put things together… it’s a bright light for me to see what you’re capable of doing behind the scenes…creating the campaign and the affiliate aspect of Empowered Business Entrepreneurs. I sooo appreciate your compassion and understanding when I couldn’t actively promote our event… Doing my best to get the word out… I am so honored and so proud to know you and Alicia and for your consideration to have me as one of your Speakers! You’re so awesome! Big Hugs! Emma
Hameed my dearest! How are you? Wow! I am honored that you stopped by to read and comment on my blog. I know how busy you are and what a masterful blogger and industry leader you are! I love your videos – talk about authentic! No wonder you notice the authenticity of this post… it’s because you live by those rules too… I see how you encourage people out there and I feel your genuine desire to help those who are lost but want so badly to succeed… Thank you so much for your kind compliments and your vote of confidence on my “being on my way to massive success…” I believe that we have to all go through a time of seasoning and grooming for success and I have to say, I have paid a lot of dues indeed! Ha, ha! Yes, I too personally look forward to meeting you in person and accepting that SUPER BIG HUG! You appreciate my example of “true leadership” because it takes one to know one… Till we meet in person, here is a SUPER BIG VIRTUAL HUG!!! Take care Hameed… Emma
Oh my goodness, Ann my dearest Ann! I am soooo HONORED that you stopped by, read my post and left me this incredible heartwarming and inspiring comment! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, Ann! You are truly one of my “heroes” when it comes to someone so powerful and so “exposed” but has successfully managed to balance a successful business and kept family as a priority.
Yes, I definitely remember your interview with Jerry Chen here at our home… I vividly remember that morning as Jerry and I drove to pick you and Candace up, there was an inexplicable excitement that I will finally get to meet THE Ann Sieg! When the interview started, I remember just absolutely enjoying every morsel of wisdom you shared and how you were able to “diffuse” some of Jerry’s wild humor! That’s why Candace and I were giggling! Reminiscing that moment still makes me chuckle…
What an amazing partnership you truly have… I can feel the respect you and your husband have for each other. I totally agree that: “we need to do what is right and responsible not what is convenient or pleasure focused. In the end being true to your values and commitments gives great satisfaction, happiness and peace of mind. The acquisition of “stuff” rings hollow by comparison”.
Having a husband and wife who understands and share the same family values, a husband who is there to support his wife’s dreams, and a wife who respects her husband’s dreams regardless of the difference in those dreams is one of the keys to a long lasting marriage. When Mom and Dad are happy, the family is happy!
Ann, you have provided me with such incredible support throughout this ordeal and I want you to know that I am here for you – I am your advocate… your friend, your prayer warrior… I am here in whatever capacity I can help you with as you go through your decision making process… It’s the most difficult stage but once you move past that, you’ll feel a huge shift.
I know you are already surrounded by incredibly loving friends who will be at your beckon call but please know that you can count me on that list! I sooo love and adore you and I look forward to another interview with you in our new home
Huntington Beach always welcomes you! Love and Hugs! Emma 
Oh my goodness, Ann my dearest Ann! I am soooo HONORED that you stopped by, read my post and left me this incredible heartwarming and inspiring comment! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, Ann! You are truly one of my “heroes” when it comes to someone so powerful and so “exposed” but has successfully managed to balance a successful business and kept family as a priority.
Yes, I definitely remember your interview with Jerry Chen here at our home… I vividly remember that morning as Jerry and I drove to pick you and Candace up, there was an inexplicable excitement that I will finally get to meet THE Ann Sieg! When the interview started, I remember just absolutely enjoying every morsel of wisdom you shared and how you were able to “diffuse” some of Jerry’s wild humor! That’s why Candace and I were giggling! Reminiscing that moment still makes me chuckle…
What an amazing partnership you truly have… I can feel the respect you and your husband have for each other. I totally agree that: “we need to do what is right and responsible not what is convenient or pleasure focused. In the end being true to your values and commitments gives great satisfaction, happiness and peace of mind. The acquisition of “stuff” rings hollow by comparison”.
Having a husband and wife who understands and share the same family values, a husband who is there to support his wife’s dreams, and a wife who respects her husband’s dreams regardless of the difference in those dreams is one of the keys to a long lasting marriage. When Mom and Dad are happy, the family is happy!
Ann, you have provided me with such incredible support throughout this ordeal and I want you to know that I am here for you – I am your advocate… your friend, your prayer warrior… I am here in whatever capacity I can help you with as you go through your decision making process… It’s the most difficult stage but once you move past that, you’ll feel a huge shift.
I know you are already surrounded by incredibly loving friends who will be at your beckon call but please know that you can count me on that list! I sooo love and adore you and I look forward to another interview with you in our new home
Huntington Beach always welcomes you! Love and Hugs! Emma 
Dean my FRIEND! How are you? Thank you for finding the time to visit my blog and leave a comment… I am blown away by you! I saw your points at Better Networker the other day… 28,000 ++++? You’re amazing! You make me laugh… “yes, I will take a mattress on the floor” anyday… I sooo appreciate your friendship! We haven’t met but I feel l like we go way back… you truly have been one of my very first online friends! One day we will meet my dearest friend! I just know it… yes, I LOVE New Zealand.. I have great memories of your beautiful country… I guess I just have to adopt the “every day is a holiday” attitude and think of you… Big hugs Dean! Emma
Bonnie dearest Bonnie! How are you? I miss hearing your voice in our Coaching Cognition Tuesday sessions! Thank you for stopping by, reading m blog and posting such a nice comment. Yes the biggest battle is within ourselves… and “optimism and realism” is a fine line that most people can’t even define. You write sooo beautifully! I am so glad I was able to somewhat share my life’s lesson that inspires and encourages those who are listening… I will continue to do so as long as there is one person positively impacted by it… thanks Bonnie! Wishing you heaps of Success and Happiness! Big Hugs, Emma
Dearest Jim! How are you? It’s sooo great to “see” you again! Yes, my post was inspired by the realization that many people hurting out there. As you probably already know, I am a very optimistic person and I’m passionate about empowering entrepreneurs. However I also believe that even leaders need to be able to share their own weaknesses, not to gain pity but to give others hope that these things do happen to the best of us but what’s important is why and how a decision is made and how we’re going to be able to move forward with it! It’s amazing what sort of doors open after acceptance of letting go of things that you thought were important but in the bigger scheme proves to be a burden and an “anchor” that weighs down on success that awaits… I will be sharing more about that in my future posts…
I have always been mindful of how I can help people succeed and while I know there is no magic pill, I believe that collectively we can help each other move closer to our dreams… THANK YOU Jim for sharing your 2 cents and for always being there… I appreciate you so much! Big Hugs, Emma
Kelly!!! You blow me away! Wow! What a beautiful video with an amazing message from such a powerful lady! I am deeply humbled that you thought of me enough to create this video to share with your friends and audience. You understand my desire to authentically share because you too are a leader who is transparent and true… you’re definitely a leader of honor and integrity and I am so blessed to know you! THANK YOU for your love and support and if there is anything I can do for you, know that I’m just here cheering you on! Big Hugs! Emma
The first time these words made impact to my life was when I heared that “To Whom Much Is Given… Much Is Expected” was actually a bible verse that our former president Cory Aquino told her family.. it was so humbling for me.. So I checked the same verse in google and here I am now writing to your blog post.. It’s my first time to write back to a blog and the first time to like and even read and continued reading a blog… then the next…. and then the videos and then the next..
your life is really “wow” and so inspiring for me.. Just now I just read “Our Miracle Son… A Purpose For My Second Life”.. It made me think that it’s actually a miracle life for you.. Your writings are so awakening and it came at the right time for me.. even it’s 1am now in the Philippines.. So much going on in my mind that I wanted to share with you coz as I read your stories, I feel like I’m at the same road as you were years ago.. I wanted different this year.. I want to be in constant relationship with God, family and friends.. I wanted to be more active in the aspect of life that matters most.. people!
I’m off to read your other post now and I’m sure to write something there too.. Thank you for being my divine intervention today. God bless you more!
~ KB
Awww, thanks Khristy! How are you? Wow, I didn’t even know that “To Whom Much Is Given…. ” Was quoted by our late Pres. Cory… I heard that for the first time from Dani Johnson. Thank you for your comment and I’m glad you found inspiration from this post… Yes, we all have our moments of fear and doubt and we constantly have to remind ourselves that “fear and faith cannot co-exist” – it’s either one or the other… Thanks for stopping by and stay in touch… Cheering you on!!