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Archive for March 2010

Do You Need Relief From Information Overload?

By Emma on March 25, 2010 3 Comments


Buisinesswoman screaming at her lap top

I am noticing lately that industry leaders are all sharing something that is a legitimate concern for a lot of online marketers….

INFORMATION OVERLOAD!

So, I decided to post something that hopefully will not add to that “overload” but hopefully help in streamlining your strategy and helping you create a structure to minimize information overload. Let’s face it, more information will be made more and more available so it will be up to you to use self-restraint and practice good judgment.

As a “Step By Step Accountability Coach” I hear this from clients ALL THE TIME. After helping clients get out of the overwhelm mode and personally going through the same frustration on what works and what doesn’t and having spent hours of frustration, thousands of dollars on courses, seminars and mentors – not to mention lots of nervous breakdowns and sleepless nights, I believe that I now have a clearer understanding of why there is Information Overload and what we can do about it. So, here is my “Top 10 Reasons For Information Overload With Entrepreneurs”. Scroll down as I will then give you the SOLUTION on How To Minimize Information Overload!

1) Lack of focus
2) Weakness is saying no to “BSOs” – Bright Shiny Objects
3) The “I’m Going To Miss Out” mentality – feeling the need to stay on the cutting edge
4) Not really understanding the mindset of how their passion is in alignment with what it is they are trying so hard to achieve.
5) Not clear on who their target market is or their message to that market so it becomes a shot gun approach
6) No Accountability to apply and implement the learning
7) The feeling of DESPERATION that they need to generate money FAST so they will try the best strategy that’s presented to them
8 ) Great highly talented copywriters who are irresistible writers! ;) (I do admire them a lot but their gifts might not be to your best advantage if you don’t practice self-control )
9) Failure to set goals with a deadline for implementation
10) Last but not least… Having a “fan” or herd mentality that they will buy ANYTHING a their favorite “GURU” offers.

I am sure there are more reasons but from experience, having an awareness of these 10 main reasons and making a conscious decision to at least identify your reasons for allowing this overload to happen is a first step towards clarity and focus and ultimately RESULTS!

HOW CAN YOU MINIMIZE INFORMATION OVERLOAD?

It’s simple! Do the exact opposite of what’s causing it for you!

1) Have a focus… for every course presented to you, ask yourself: “How will this help me move forward at the exact stage I’m in right now?”
2) Resist “BSOs” – Bright Shiny Objects! They are very tempting!
3) Don’t entertain the “I’m Going To Miss Out” mentality – a good strategy will ALWAYS be there when you’re ready.
4) Be clear on your passion and make sure your offering is in alignment with your passion.
5) Get clear on who your audience is and do a laser targeted approach and speak their language!
6) Be ACCOUNTABLE! Implement what you have purchased first before you purchase another course.
7) DESPERATION is NOT your friend! Come from a place of expanding knowledge, not desperation of NEEDING MONEY NOW! You will simply repel whatever it is you are desperately needing…
8 ) Be mindful of a great sales copy and know that it’s a talent and it’s the copy’s job to tug at you and convert you into sales. Nothing wrong with this if you absolutely know you need the product. Don’t get sucked into the “scarcity close” of when it’s gone it’s gone or it’s only limited to a few people.
9) This is what I believe is IMPORTANT: Set a goal to implement and stick with that goal! Challenge yourself to reach that goal before you willingly distract yourself.
10) Last but not least… while there are gurus and leaders I truly admire, I suggest you resist that “fan” and herd mentality at all cost. If the product, course or program is not right for you at the moment, don’t just buy it because everyone’s doing it!

I am sure there are more reasons but from experience, having an awareness of these 10 main reasons and making a conscious decision to at least identify your reasons and pick a few actions on how to minimize the overload is a first step towards clarity and focus and ultimately RESULTS!

To Your Massive Success!

Emma Tiebens

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Do You Celebrate Progress Or Are You Frustrated With Success Delays?

By Emma on March 22, 2010 No Comments
Emma Tiebens Mind Map after Traffic Geyser event March 23, 2010

Emma Tiebens Mind Map after Traffic Geyser event March 23, 2010

I awoke this morning at 1:45 am and I couldn’t go back to sleep.  It wasn’t Garrett “sleep-walking” to our bed that woke me up, it was an intense desire to get massive ideas out of my head onto paper!

I just got back from a 3-day intensive Traffic Geyser Firepower Summit Event – and at this event, I was reminded of so many things about the past 2 years of my quest for the “Holy Grail” of online/internet marketing.

I got reminded of the fact that it was at a Traffic Geyser LIVE event in January last year when this blog, The Relational Marketer was born.  It was around 4:30am when I woke up in my hotel room at the Westin San Diego when I thought to myself “I know what I absolutely would LOVE to share people – “relationship marketing”!  That domain was already taken so I went for “relational marketer”.

This weekend reminded me of the power all of us entrepreneurs – yes, even those who are just starting out – to change the course of the history of this great nation!  Yes, we definitely need workers and employees but we also need successful businesses to hire the employees…  What about those charitable causes… who are the biggest supporters? Entrepreneurs and businesses!  Not everyone is born an entrepreneur but for those who do have the passion to make “elegant choices” (as my Mentor Joel Bauer would say) and have the spirit and the tenacity to see the process through, there are rewards waiting.

I do realize that before we get to those entrepreneurial rewards, there is sacrifice of time, money and freedom to be made and long learning curves to go through.  What has worked for me in the past 2 years is to be mindful to celebrate my progress no matter how small and insignificant they are.  I made a commitment to continue moving forward… what are my options?  To get frustrated and get more of that everyday?

This morning at 3:00 am, I couldn’t resist it… I created a rough Mind Map and colored it with Crayola crayon… No it’s not flashy or perfect but it has allowed me to get this ideas that are fighting for space in my brain, onto paper.  Now I have so much more clarity and I can go to bed.

I guess the lesson for this blog post is 2 fold:

1) Pay attention to your progress – CELEBRATE your success no matter how trivial it may seem.

and

2)  Write or draw your ideas on paper – create your own Mind Map just to clarify your initial “blueprint”.  Don’t strive to perfect it… make it functional first.   For some of you, creating a Vision Board works.  I do have a Vision Board and it’s on a previous blogpost – I will put the link below.

I would love to hear if you were inspired to create your own Mind Map and would love to see it!  Leave your comment and where I can see your Mind Map posted…

To Your Massive Success!

Emma ;)

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What Fruits Do You Produce? A Heartwarming Story On Giving From The Heart…

By Emma on March 12, 2010 2 Comments

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It’s Friday afternoon – around 4:00pm.  I picked up Garrett from school and decided to run a quick errand at the nearby Vons Supermarket.

Right outside Vons, there was a woman outside sitting near the entrance.  She had the most beautiful smile and she was holding a bucket with a sign that said “Please Help The Homeless”.  Garrett couldn’t keep her eyes off her.  As soon as we got inside, he said “Mom, we need to help her later…”  I told him we would.

After our very quick grocery shopping, we were on our way out and I gave Garrett some money to put inside the bucket.  When we got there, he eagerly but gently put the dollar bills into the bucket and as he respectfully looked at the lady he also said:  “God Bless You…”  Naturally, I was so proud of him for wanting to help people in need through his own initiative.

We got in the car, drove off, waved good-bye to the lady but after being in the car for a few minutes, Garrett remembered that he had his wallet in the car and in it was 10% of his recent savings which amounted to $20.00.  He asked me: “Mom, is it okay if I gave my $20.00 to the homeless people?”  My heart melted… I was dumbfounded!  I was so touched that he wanted to help some more… He said “Mom, can we please turn around so I can give this to her? The Holy Spirit is telling me to do it…”  You better believe that was all I needed to hear and I turned the car around as fast as a New York minute!

When we got there, Garrett excitedly went back to the lady and by then there was also another lady standing next to her giving her donation.  He told her:  “Excuse me Ma’m, we came back because I wanted to give you this… this is 10% of my savings….”  Just then, the lady burst into tears – she couldn’t believe what she just saw and heard!  With tears in her eyes and a big radiant smile on her face, she looked up in heaven and said “Dear God, please bless this young man for his heart!”  She looked straight into Garrett’s eyes and she said “Young man, you know God sees your heart right at this very minute… He is going to richly bless you for your generosity”.  Then she looked at me and said “You have to be so proud… you are doing a tremendous job teaching him.”  It was one of those moments where I felt so proud to be a parent. By then all 3 of us were sharing tears of pride, gratitude and joy before Garrett could even comprehend what he just did!

We asked for their names – Corliss and Brenda.  Corliss is a volunteer to help raise funds for the homeless and she’s normally  at the Vons Supermarket on Fridays.  Garrett has now decided that we will do our best to visit Corliss every Friday and perhaps even give his toys, clothes and food to those the homeless families Corliss represents.  (I am still in tears reminiscing that moment… tears of a proud Mother!)

What happened this afternoon brought to mind something important.  As we go about our day and we go through the motion of  get, get, get: getting ahead in life, getting caught up with our “to-do list” and getting upset at the little things, may we always be reminded that our activities and decisions produce FRUITS – good fruits or bad fruits.  Our activities and decisions are the seeds and the results are the fruits but depending on the type of plant, some trees take much longer to bear good fruit.  As long as we stay consistent nourishing the plant that stems from those seeds, there is a bigger probability that it will bear the most succulent, sweetest and juiciest fruit!

I know this tree just did……

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Mike Klingler’s Discussion: “Inspiration” or “Desperation”?

By Emma on March 6, 2010 2 Comments

This morning, Mike Klingler – Co-Founder of Marketing Merge and Renegade Professional, posted a discussion on his Facebook Fan Page.  I had the huge desire to give my 2 cents worth and I would like to share that with you…  If you want to participate in Mike’s Discussion, you can find the link on the bottom of this post… I welcome your comments as always…

  • Mike Klingler I’ve gotta’ say, by including the word “Lasting” in my question you can tell what I’m driving at here. For lasting results, a person must move out of feeling anxiety, worry and ‘desperation’ in order to fully connect with others and themselves (both key to a successful thriving business).

    However, “desperation” is often the catalyst that drives people to movement… to take the initial action.

    So what we can achieve here is a discussion that not only answers the question that kicked off the topic, but also the answer to these questions:

    “How do we, as leaders, help people move from the initial phase of business development (desperation, anxiety, worry, doubt, etc) into the more empowering catalyst for creation (inspiration) which is what allows them to actually fulfill their goals in business?”

    “If someone hasn’t achieved success yet, how can they feel GOOD (inspired, confident) about the process?”

    I’m not just looking for external things people can do (like read books, listen to inspiring tapes, though if these have assisted you feel free to share). More so, how does the person approach the actual process of developing their business when they feel they don’t know what the heck they’re trying to do with their business yet?

    That’s a lot of questions all driving at the same thing… just let er lose! I’d like to hear from you.

    about an hour ago · Report
  • Emma Tiebens Wow Mike! Another thought and heart provoking discussion from you and I simply couldn’t resist chiming in. This was a HUGE issue for me as I evolved to where I am now and the clearer path I am heading now.

    Two years ago, I barely knew how to send an email. I built my home business using traditional marketing strategies and as I was learning them, I did feel a sense of accomplishment. However I noticed that every time I learned something, it necessitated me to continue to learn more and learn more, adding a dimension to everything I needed to learn… from basics to intermediate to advance, then learning other basics, then intermediate, then advanced. There was no such thing as a COMPLETE system because we all are in different stages in our lives and in our business where we come in from different angles.

    Right when I would think that one course, system or seminar is the ULTIMATE “Do-All, Be-All” to where I want to go, another pops out. Now, I don’t mind this because I am a proverbial learner… I LOVE learning new things, new technology and learning from Mentors who offer different strengths.

    This is where the dilemma was – (and I learned it the hard way). With acquiring new knowledge and skills comes great sacrifice – of money, of time, of friends. I had to make choices and sacrifices of being away from my family, limiting my social life and worst, arguments with my spouse (despite his 100% support of my dreams) everytime it involves the next financial investment to further my skills.

    I really thought for sure that with the time, effort and sacrifice I put into my “education” that I would have seen success within 1 year… the harder I pushed, the more elusive success became. I even began to doubt myself that I will ever see the congruency and success to everything I was doing.

    At some point, desperation set in… I did things out of desperation. Desperation became my driving force. Desperation to succeed, to prove to my detractors who didn’t understand what I was doing that such a thing will work. Desperation that if I don’t succeed, we will lose our home. Desperation to save ourselves from embarassment.

    One day, in a moment of meditation and prayer, I came to a realization that to be desperate is to COME FROM A PLACE OF LACK! I realized that everytime I acted in desperation, I felt this huge knot in my stomach… I was simply reacting out of fear. Suddenly, I got reminded: WHEN THERE IS FEAR, THERE IS NO FAITH!

    It was all I needed to have a “heart shift” – I made a decision to come from a place of INSPIRATION. I decide to do things because it is what I am called to do… Out of the blue, my Mentor Joel Bauer showed up and he took it to a different level where I discovered my gifts and passion and the purpose for them.

    Now, I come from a place of INSPIRATION. Everyday, I have a knowing that “something good is going to happen today” and I can’t wait to get out of bed because I know that what I am doing and where I am heading is so clear and so congruent with my life’s mission and purpose. Inspiration propells me to come from a place of abundance and not lack; the knowing the right people,the right message, the right books, courses and opportunities are going to come, effortlessly and that if we truly believe that God gives us the power to create the wealth and we’re operating from a place of LOVE, there is not stopping us!

    In short, motivation from DESPERATION is empty, ineffective and short lived… motivation from Inspiration is more powerful, highly effective and lasts an entire lifetime!

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