"Imagine being mentored by someone like Emma... there will be no stopping you!"
- Joel Bauer
Author, Speaker Trainer, Wealth Mentor
"The unflappable Emma Tiebens took me on when no one else would. Cut my learning curve tremendously and enhanced my marketing 3 fold in the process. Emma takes the confusion and the over whelm out for those... that are cutting their teeth, trying to cut a check as well, and helps people find their true voice & their Brand, in record time & helps you be authentic from the start. Always in that wonderful patient supportive voice of hers.... Thank you so much Emma in making me stand out in what I do! She invented Relational Marketing, didn't she??? She did, right...... ;-)"
Best Actress, Best Actor, Best Movie… If you have watched the Oscars, the words “And The Winner Is… ” are 4 words that leave people breathless!
It’s one of Hollywood’s most awaited night… the 87th Academy Awards, aka The Oscars. I am watching some of it on Livestream as I don’t own a TV but for the most part, I am excited to see the gowns and jewelry that are gracing the red carpet.
I have been to many red carpet events including the Grammy’s and high profile galas but for now, this is the closest I have gotten to the #Oscars for now but feeling optimistic and setting intentions that I will be invited next year! LOL! This photo was taken from another event hosted by the Meeting Professionals International – MPI at the Sheraton Gateway in Los Angeles.
While I am now very comfortable at red carpet events and expanding my circles of influence, I didn’t start that way. I was very shy, introverted and was terrified of connecting with people. That all changed when I discovered that whether I knew it or not, I had a personal brand and if I don’t tell people who I am, what I believe in, how I can serve them and why I do what I do, I would remain a “best-kept secret” – someone who has a vision but a vision that would never make a difference.
Today I am an outspoken advocate for “Monetize and Make Your Message Matter Through Your Magnetic and Memorable Brand”. My 6 Elements of Branding enables people to get crystal clear about their Unique Branding Message that they start stepping out of their boxes, on to their own red carpets of meaningful success! So much so that when you hear “And the winner is… ” you already know that you’re a winner of your own Oscar by simply being yourself!
I am speaking at the www.AscentExpo.com at the Los Angeles Convention Center on Saturday, February 28, 2015 at 1:00 pm, on “Magnetic and Memorable Branding” – I am inviting you to join me as well as some phenomenal Speakers! As one of their Speakers, I have a special VIP Code and link I can give to people who either ask me here or send me a Private Message. I am down to about 20 tickets now as I have already gifted them to family, friends and clients. Let me know ASAP… Happy Oscar Night! See you soon!!!
Christmas truly is my favorite time of the year! Having been an International Flight Attendant in my not-so-distant past, I have been blessed to experience Christmas traditions from all around the world. I was also born and raised in Manila, Philippines, yet I have lived in California for almost 26 years now. Amidst the festivities, the parties, the gifts and the songs of the season, one thing that we all do at Christmas is send our Christmas well-wishing to everyone. At this time of the year, if feels as though that there is more love and generosity in the air. The energy of reciprocity is high and the intention to give than to receive is strong and palpable. Re-living family traditions, going at great lengths to be with each other is truly a big deal.
My Christmas this year is quite different. I spent the past 5 days de-cluttering, organizing, donating and moving things around so I can create an environment that is comfortably luxurious. Like anything, “luxury” is rather objective but for my purpose, luxury simply means being able to create an environment that reminds one of abundance, beauty and harmony. I want to create an environment that’s less cluttered and chaotic. Being in an environment like that intensifies my inspiration and awareness of how magnificent God is – that we are always surrounded by an Divine energy that is literally granting our every wish, not only on Christmas but in our every waking moment!
Here’s something for you to think about. When you say, “Merry Christmas” to someone or “Happy Holidays”, do you really mean that or are you just used to saying it? Forget the fact that for the past few years, even just saying “Merry Christmas” has been made controversial for political incorrectness. I understand that there are certain situations when people must be mindful but for the most part, I simply choose to say, “Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays”. If they don’t practice Christmas, they usually reply with Happy Holidays. To be worried about offending people defeats the purpose and spirit of the season. It’s all about the intention. When I say Merry Christmas, I am aligned with my intention is to wish them more love, more joy and more peace in their hearts, regardless of race or religion.
The first step in making a wish or a dream come to life is to be specific about it and to write them down. Next is to make a commitment that you will live every waking moment with an awareness of and alignment to your wishes.
Every year I write 3 Christmas Wishes. These are the wishes that I wish for this year, extending to the next. Last year’s were:
1) CLARITY of Next Steps
2) PEACE of Mind and Heart, and
3) CONFIDENCE to take a leap of faith.
I’m happy to share that I achieved all of them this year! This morning, I was writing my Christmas wishes for myself I realized something. When you wish someone, a heartfelt holiday well-wishing, do you also wish the same for yourself? Have you thought about what you REALLY want for yourself, your family, your clients, your social media following and even strangers that you meet? If you haven’t done so, I believe it’s time for you to make it your annual tradition to create your Christmas Wishes. If you don’t celebrate Christmas, call it your Holiday Wishes. Some people don’t believe in wishes but I most certainly do. Wishes done with clarity, specificity, purposeful intention, action and a time frame have enabled civilizations to evolve and expand. Wishes are synonymous to intentions. Never underestimate the power of intention as it carries with it incredible momentum!
One of my favorite songs is a Disney Classic, “A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes”. I find myself singing this in the car or when I wake up in the morning. It’s my subconscious mind’s way to connect with the desires of my heart. If you don’t know this song, here are the words:
“A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes”
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you’re fast asleep
In dreams you will lose your heartache
Whatever you wish for you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling through
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true
A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you’re feeling small
Alone in the night you whisper
Thinking no one can hear you at all
You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you
Don’t let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true
This year, I am creating a new tradition for my family. We are going to start writing our 3 Christmas wishes and put them on the tree so every year as a reminder of our commitment to our dreams and ourselves.
So what are your 3 Christmas Wishes this year? Please share them here and let’s create an intention to help each other make sure that we make our dreams and wishes alive and manifested by next Christmas! Here are my 3 wishes:
1) RELISH every waking moment
2) CHERISH myself and others
3) NOURISH my mind, body and spirit
Now it’s your turn… Please share your 3 wishes below and align yourself with the intention and inspired action to make your 3 Christmas wishes come true! Whether you’re surrounded by family or not, you’re really never alone if you know how to honor and love yourself. I have spent many Christmases all by myself and the reason I can confidently say this is because I know that Divine love is always with us – sustaining, nurturing and loving.
Wishing all of you, my Family and Friends across this beautiful planet, a heartfelt MERRY CHRISTMAS and a Happy New Year 2015 filled with more MIRACLES, LOVE, WELL-BEING and SUCCESS with SATISFACTION and SIGNIFICANCE!
It’s Thanksgiving Day, 2014 – first time in 20+ years that I am not cooking a big feast and a 20+ lb turkey. This year has truly brought me lots of tears and fears but also lots of joy, clarity, courage and wins! I have forged new relationships and nurtured old ones. Relationships take a lot of work and it starts with this very critical piece – SELF-LOVE.
I am coming from a very confident, content and grateful place right now but it wasn’t long ago when I felt incapable, insecure and highly dependent on others to bring me joy and validation. As human beings we are here on this earth to feel as though we belong, so we seek an environment to thrive, to be nurtured, to be cherished. Anything that threatens that is not worthy of compromise even if that means not taking care of the one who matters the most, YOU. I have worked with many clients who are going through life and career transitions or business growth challenges and they share a common story. The success and happiness of their loved ones meant so much more than their desire for their own success and happiness. While that may sound noble and a representation of unconditional love, nothing could be farther from the truth.
I grew up being told, “It’s better to give than to receive.” I still believe that to this day… BUT, here’s the irony of that statement, how in the world can you give something you don’t have in the first place?”
How many parents have you heard say, “I am working hard, taking precious time away from you because this is for your future.” Tell that to a child who doesn’t understand and is craving that parent’s love NOW, not in the future.
If you’re a parent, how many times did you find yourself feeling unappreciated because you gave so much to your children and you really believed you were doing it for them and not for you?” Really, ask yourself, if you were doing it for them, does it really matter if they show appreciation or not? Expecting appreciation is a pat on our ego and is not a result of unconditional giving. Every time we expect others to behave and act a certain way, we are gearing up ourselves for disappointment because like Don Miguel Ruiz said in his book, The Four Agreements, “Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.”
When we love ourselves, there is no need for people pleasing. There is no need for validation. We do the things we do for the sheer enjoyment of loving and serving others. Having unrealistic expectations from others is a proverbial emotional trap. It’s the seat of all disappointments, anger, resentment and regret.
My 12-year old son already knew this at a very young age. Today he wrote this on his Instagram Post:
“Take the time to feel the earth to look within. When you make friends with yourself, you will never be alone. We should always be thankful for everything we have. Take a moment to contemplate what you are thankful for. Because truly this is the meaning of Thanksgiving…” – Garrett Tiebens
If you’re not used to loving yourself, it will take time but you will also enjoy the journey of rediscovering who you really are. As you seek, you shall find… It may take a bit longer for you to feel a tangible result but just that decision to do something about your new found awareness will give you a surge of inexplicable empowerment. It’s a very powerful experience and you will know it when you see people who haven’t seen you for years and they tell you, “Wow, you are bolder and happier than the last time we saw each other!”
How can you practice Self-Love daily? Simple – it starts with awareness and a commitment that you will be cognizant when you’re not loving yourself, particularly when you:
1) Get mad at yourself for failing to do things perfectly, for not saying the right things and when you fail to please people you so desperately want to please.
2) Don’t listen to your body, when you’re feeling really tired but you have to finish more tasks for other people.
3) Add more things to your to do list and that that list doesn’t include pampering yourself by getting a manicure, pedicure, facial or a massage.
4) Entertain nagging thoughts and worry in your head, that creates sleepless nights.
5) Get so stressed and so jumpy that you raise your voice to people around you without really meaning to.
6) Skip deep breathing, meditation and prayer to ground and center you and oxygenate your brain and the trillions of cells in your body, in order to take care of somebody else.
7) Expecting expressions of appreciation and gratitude from others whom you have served and helped.
8) Wallow in self-pity for something someone has done to you.
9) Hang on to the memory of hurtful resentment for offenses done to you in the past.
10) Regretting time lost for not having done things that you should have.
Awareness takes commitment that is seasoned with time. It starts with the commitment that you will do something each day to nurture your mind, your body and your spirit and you are going to LET GO of negative emotions, feelings and people that no longer serve you. That your joy is more important than anything or anyone else’s. You’re going to take time to walk barefoot on the grass, listen to more music, dance, move and connect with more people offline – face to face. There is a beautiful exchange of energy when you do that.
With the onset of social media, we all have become the media! We all have the ability to create our own platforms and our own brands. Whether you know it or not, if you are not consciously creating your own brand presence, other people will create it for you. They will always have a perception of you so you might as well make your brand presence, “Magnetic Memorable and TRUSTED” as that is a the basic foundation on how you will monetize your products, systems or service.
If you’ve been reading my blogs and social media content for the past 6 years now, you will notice that I rarely post about how disappointed or angry I was about someone or something. It was a choice I made early on that I was going to use social media as an expression for any of these 3 I’s:
In one way or another, you and I have shared in each others’ lives virtually or in person – through social media, through my thousands of videos, blog posts, social media posts, articles and TV, radio and magazine interviews. We are definitely connected and I am absolutely grateful for your presence in my life, which in itself is a present… a gift…
If you’ve read this far, this message is meant for you! I am amazed that this is already my 7th year in and around social media and through the years, I have truly connected with the most amazing people in the world who have truly transformed my life in so many ways and that includes YOU! Have a beautiful and blessed Thanksgiving… Praying heaps of blessings to you and your families, now and always… Having an intimate, simple, low-key but very special Thanksgiving at home (but not without Champagne and Chambord! LOL!) So how are you spending today? Please Comment, Like, Subscribe and Share! Much LOVE and Virtual HUGS!
Ever since I started posting about “CLARITY FIRST”, more people have reached out to me and asking me questions about it. This video will reveal:
– Why clarity?
– What is an “Invisible Counselor” as shared by Napoleon Hill on Chapter 9
– What are the 3 Things you must CLARIFY before you can monetize.
– The top areas that most people need support in for their next-level.
– Where do people usually get stumped as they commit to move forward?
– The lessons that gives me the confidence that I can help virtually anyone achieve clarity in their MINDSET, MESSAGE, MASTERY, MARKETING and MONEY.
– The books that I continue to read which set the foundation for how I help my clients.
– How to jump-start your 2015 now to make it your best year yet!
– And much more..
If you’re going for the next level in your life and business or are in career transition exploring possibilities and want to gain more clarity, allow me to help you! Visit www.VisibilityInfluenceProfits.com – fill out the short questionnaire there and I would love to gift you with a 15-min Complimentary Clarity Session. I look forward to speaking with you!
Recently I re-introduced and integrated my Bella Gemma Jewelry into my Inspirational Speaking and Life and Business Coaching.
Now more than ever, I am compelled to INSPIRE and SERVE with my knowledge and passion about our Divine Connection with gemstones, pearls and crystals. Having lost and mourned 3 pregnancies myself, when they approached me for donation, I had this idea to create 100 pairs of pearl earrings which I personally made and decided to gift them to these mothers who have also lost their children. This is a story of connection that to this day intensifies my purpose… SUCCESS with SIGNIFICANCE and of SERVICE… When you do things boldly and from the heart, you really don’t know whose lives you get to touch in the moment…
Here’s an inspiring and heartwarming letter which explains why I named this highly versatile pair of pearl earrings as “Peggy’s Pearls”…
Greetings Dear Emma,
Recently, I attended the “Journey of the Heart” Conference in Palm Springs offered by Umbrella Ministries. This is their 8th annual event and the 5th that I have attended. Always, it’s a blessing and I go home refreshed and uplifted.
On Sunday morning each Mother was given your gift of the beautiful pearl earrings. Thank you so much for your generosity. Daisy Catchings explained how she had contacted your company about purchasing a set for each Mother, and how you offered them as a gift to us. What a thoughtful and caring gesture on your part.
My daughter Peggy Ann died in 1984 when she was only 24 years of age. She LOVED pearls and wore them a lot, although she never owned any ‘real’ pearl earrings. When her Father and I married I had a simple pearl choker (remember those?) that I wore at our wedding. When our oldest daughter Vickie married, I had that choker necklace made into two separate strands for my other two girls to wear in her wedding. Peggy had one and Donna had the other. When Peggy was killed I decided not to let her wear the necklace as she would not need it in Heaven anyway, and I gave hers to Vickie. A few times over the years, I have wished I had of let her wear it. Then, God quickly reminds me that Peggy has more jewels in Heaven than she can ever possibly wear!
Peggy was our Pearl………and we always called her that as she was our youngest daughter. When I received your gift of pearls, I was so touched that someone who doesn’t even know me, never knew my beautiful daughter would give me such a beautiful gift of compassion, and never even think of getting a thank you card! In today’s ‘all about me’ world, it’s unheard of. Someone once said ‘Coincidences are little taps on the shoulder from God.’ I believe it’s true that there are ‘no coincidences!’ When I saw those beautiful pearl eardrops, it was as if Peggy’s brown eyes sparkled again to remind me……….”I Love You, Mom.”
I am not familiar with your jewelry line and must admit I have never heard of BellaGemma Jewels before the Retreat. However, I do know that the Owner of the Company is a Jewel, and a very Rare one in the business world of today. My prayer is that you and your company will be blessed with Prosperity beyond your wildest imaginings. You have truly blessed me and I will treasure these pearls forever. It was just a lovely reminder on that Sunday morning that Peggy, my own Pearl, is forever with me in my heart.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Umbrella Ministries Ministry Representative
Lake Havasu City, AZ
Create your own “Peggy’s Pearls” – your own signature jewelry that means something special to you. Come join me at my “Create Your Own Success Activation Jewelry” Workshop this Friday – Open House Style from 9:30am – 4:30 pm in Irvine, CA. Details here: https://www.facebook.com/events/1495418450728308/